When my daughter Vy was born, I was asked how I felt. At the time, I struggled to capture the overwhelming flood of emotions in just a few words. Fatherhood brings a cascade of feelings—happiness, pride, worry, and love—each profound and deeply moving. No simple response could do it justice.
Vy’s smile is my greatest joy. Her laughter has the power to brighten even my most exhausting days. I treasure every moment with her, from her peaceful slumber to her playful giggles, and even the times she’s upset. Each experience fills my heart in a way I never imagined possible.
Being her father inspires me to strive for more. I want to give her the best life and future I can. But this drive comes with its own challenges. I constantly question myself: Am I doing enough? Will I be able to shield her from life’s hardships while giving her all she needs to thrive?
Some moments have been particularly tough. When we learned Vy needed a second operation at just two months old, my heart broke. Watching her endure something so daunting at such a tender age felt unbearable. Yet, in those dark times, my resolve to be her rock only grew stronger. I knew I had to stand firm for her, no matter what.
There are also days when fatherhood feels overwhelming. When she cries for hours or struggles with a cough, the stress can weigh heavily on me. But even in those moments, I’m reminded of the boundless love I have for her and my unwavering commitment to her happiness and well-being.
Above all, I feel an immense sense of gratitude. Vy has brought so much light into my life. She’s my greatest gift, my motivation to keep growing, and the source of my deepest happiness.
To my little Vy: Thank you for being you. You’ve transformed my world in ways I never could have imagined. I am so honored and lucky to be your dad.
